my boyfriend is a control douchebag

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Asked by amanda Nov 13, 2020 at 07:14 PM about the 2008 Honda Accord

Question type: Maintenance & Repair

so my stupid boyfriend like to run and control my
life and he bought me a nice 08 or 09 honda
accord 4 door but I am only allowed to drive it
when it's convenient for him or when he just don't
feel taking me somewhere I need to be that's even
considering the fact that we have a 3 almost 4
month old daughter and he's never home so if
something was to happen and I needed a car to
drive I wouldn't be able to start my car because the
fact that he does stupid childish stuff like unplug
something under the hood so it won't start so I
can't drive it when he's not here or when he don't
want me to so my question is what is it exactly that
he could unplug or pull out to where the car won't
start? it has power and turns over just fine even
sounds lile its going to start but then it won't catch
and start? help me pretty please and thank you so
much have a blessed and safe night and weekend
ppl!

7 Answers

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You need to quit worrying abt thay car and get the fffcckk away from him

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aint that the truth believe me i try all the time but our daughter and i have a lot of stuff some still actually packed in the car and i just want to fuck his world up and show him or prove to him i aint as stupid as he thinks which he has taught me what liytle bit i do know about mechanic work on cars which may not be much but I know a little bit prpbably more than a lot of other females but I can help tow cars pull cars i can help put a none running car up on a trailer to tow and he also taught me how to drive a stick shift!

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Is this car advice or personal advice? I think you can do better but you made a little one and now you are stuck with this guy in your life.

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Get out of your Toxic relationship is #1 What area. State are you in? I would look at fuses or disconnected wires. I would definitely look at this issue if you happen to be close to me. Your a beautiful woman & He's definitely got control, Trust & self esteem issues that need to be addressed immediately, you don't need that in your life. Especially having a young child. Good Luck, I will pray for you & your child.

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Most likely he's unplugging the fuel pump relay. It's quick and usually easy to get to. And yes, I'm going to say it too, dump your boyfriend. Abuse like this usually escalates until you wind up in the hospital or worse!! If you won't leave for yourself, leave for your Daughter! You both deserve better!! Hope that helps and good luck to you and your Daughter!! Jim

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y'all are freaking awesome and thank you so much now that he has once again left i am going to go check out a few things to see what i can figure out! I'm in louisville ky jtown to be exact lol! and hate to say but the abuse has been escalated for a while now and I have become to hate myself for sticking around threw it even tho i do handle myself sometimes but i am beyond sick and tired of it I know i dont deserve it at all!! but thank you all again so very much i need the smiles !!! I'll let y'all know if i get it anywhere lol

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I suggest moving in with your folks until you can get out on your own. Good luck!

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