where do i fond the starter and how do i change it
You need to do some more research online. An Audi forum will help you more. The starter is usually located on the engine where it connects to the transmission. Disconnect the battery first, and then removing in most vehicles is tight and you have to remove a lot of parts to get at it and making sure you connect the right wires to the certain terminals. It's best left for the experts.
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